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Not many answers this week, but I do have questions…

Two weeks ago, I felt light-hearted and hopeful.

Last week, I felt the weight of the world.

I can’t explain it, but it was definitely hard to get and stay out of bed. I want to say I feel a little lost…like I’ve wandered into a fog and have lost my sense of direction, not in a spiritual sense…more in an emotional sense.

This week, I don’t have any answers yet, but I am cautiously optimistic. Also, I do have some questions for you, dear readers, and I hope you will take a moment to answer them either in a comment here or on your own blog. If you choose to write your own post, please leave a comment and let me know where to look.

  1. What made you happy when you were younger?
  2. What makes you happy now?
  3. What do you think will make you happy in the future?
  4. Do any of these answers change if you get married? If you have children?

You do not have to, but please respond with your age or the age range in which you fall…(18-30, 31-40, 41-50, 51-60, 60+). I would like to see how our answers vary with respect to where we are in age. I understand that maturity and experience can vary with the individual, but I wanted to see if there were any noticeable patterns.

I apologize in advance if you see this post multiple times, but I might bump it up a few times so I don’t miss anyone who might like to participate.

Thank you!

Oh, I forgot to add that it’s okay if you aren’t sure what your answers are to these questions – I want to know that too.

First Q&A – Part 3

Anonymous asked, “I understand you have to be discrete, but would every consider posting more photos?”

I’m not saying I wouldn’t consider it, but I’m definitely not promising anything.

Ronnie asked, “Do you have a favourite colour in knickers:)?”

My favorite color is blue, but I also think I look good in red or black. 🙂

“Do you have a spanking fantasy, a scene that thrills?”

Hmm, I enjoy imagining the love of my life tossing me on the bed, flipping me face down, and securing my wrists and ankles. Then, he’ll pull out a blindfold and have fun playing with my body and my senses. Perhaps just letting me feel or making me guess what he is using. All implements and toys are available for him to choose from. He can fuck, spank, and/or play. It’s completely up to him whether I experience pain, pleasure, or both. This fantasy stems from a stories like this one on Literotica called “Tie Me Up Game.”

“What first attracted you to Tom?”

Hehe, my dad and I hired Tom to remodel my house. I bought a house and three acres in September of 2012.  We spent about two months tearing out all the wall panels, carpets, electrical wires, and all of the kitchen cabinets. We started wiring one room when we decided we were going to need help. Dad called someone who used to work where we work and that guy just happened to hand the phone to Tom. We set up a meeting time and Tom came out to give us a quote. Over the next few months, I got to watch him as he worked on my house. He is strong and rugged, yet kind and gentle. He is very thoughtful and cares a lot about his work. He had no idea I was watching him at the time, but I was attracted to seeing his muscles flex while he was working, listening to him be in control and calmly give direction to his crew. He also treated me with respect and cared about what I thought as he worked.

One day about two months after he started working, he walked towards me and I flashed him a smile. He said, “That is the most beautiful smile I have ever seen.” It stopped him dead in his tracks and he asked, “Is that smile for me?”

Not long after, we started dating and have been together ever since.

Thanks for your questions, Anonymous and Ronnie!

First Q&A – Part 2

Leigh Smith asked, “Are you planning a big wedding?”

Not really.  It will mostly be for family and very close friends.  My current plan is to have it at a restored fire department building downtown.  I’m not planning anything fancy…I’m hoping it’ll be more like a fun get-together and then we can run off together on our honeymoon.  It’ll be our first real vacation – just the two of us. 🙂

Thank you for your question!


In other news, I think I’ve decided to keep both Blogger and WordPress in use at least for now.  I’ll leave it to you which you would prefer to follow.

First Q&A

DelFonte (from Blogger) asked, “Could you tell me a little about yourself and why you started blogging?”

The first question is a lot harder than I thought it was going to be because I wasn’t sure which direction to go in. I decided to give a brief summary about my life now and I’ll refer you to my first post, A Bit of Background Info, for a more in-depth description. I will be 27 at the end of the month which is when I will receive my first real birthday spanking! I am a mechanical engineer who gets to hear fun buzzwords every day. I got engaged to Tom last year on March 1st, and we are working toward getting married around Christmas of this year. Life has thrown us a lot to deal with in the last year, and it’s left us feeling tired and worn out. Our love for each other has kept us going strong, and now that things are quieting down, maybe we can slow down a little and just enjoy the scenery for a while.

Blogging has become my way of keeping a journal and expressing myself even though I have never been able to keep a personal journal to save my life. I find it therapeutic because I can get some of my feelings out and I know someone is out there listening even if they don’t always reply. I hope that maybe it might help someone out there to hear about where I’ve been, where I am now, and where I want to go. I started blogging to share experiences, hear other’s opinions, and gain perspective. This community has been a wonderful place to do just that and I am amazed at the amount support we, as a community, don’t hesitate to give to one another.

Thanks for your question, DelFonte, and welcome to my blog! 🙂