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Six years ago…

Recently, I’ve been talking a lot about what I’m currently going through because that’s where I am. In my last post, I opened up and shared what happened a year ago. What I’ve been through takes up a lot of my time as I try to focus on recovering from the past, being okay with the present, and moving forward.

Today, I want to remember some good things. Looking back, May 2014 was a big month for me. On May 1st, I had worked up the courage to email Bonnie from the My Bottom Smarts blog. I had just finished reading her entire archive and it was the first time I reached out to anyone who talked about spanking as much as I wanted to talk about it. From her blog, I found links to several others. As I started exploring, I found a whole community of people who talked about everything from personal relationships to every day life to how they felt about and incorporated TTWD into their lives. A whole new world started to open up.

On May 5th, I wrote my first kink-related blog entry to introduce myself. I had no idea who would read it or what would happen. I just knew that I wanted to share my experiences and maybe find some friends out there. I had fun with it. I shared stories or books that I came across. I shared the fun kinky sex experiences. I shared things that I was hoping would happen. I shared the death of Tom’s dad and his resulting relapse into drug addiction. Then, I disappeared for four years, came back, and have been sharing some of what it’s like to slowly recover from being in love with an addict. I continue to share because I miss this community and because I hope sharing might help others.

On May 23, 2014, I reached out to someone who would end up helping me through some of the darkest times I’ve had in my life so far. At the time, she had already found my blog and commented on some of my first posts! (Talk about being really excited to be noticed by someone so amazing!) I had just finished reading her autobiography and was working through her blog archive when I sent my first email to Erica. I had no idea how important this first correspondence would be. Last year, I only texted two friends the day after I told Tom to move out – Erica was one of them. As my anxiety and depression grew into something I could no longer control and keep bottled up, she was there to virtually hold my hand, calm me down, and walk in circles repeatedly through the things that were consuming me. She encouraged my switch to weekly therapy and helped me open up. She knows everything about me. And would you believe it? She has never left my side. She was there and is still there every day. Our friendship means the world to me.

Going forward, these are the memories that I want to hold on to as I start to find myself again and let go of the past. As this month closes, I am ready for new experiences and new memories. It is time.

Blogiversary

One year ago as of this last Monday, May 4th, I published my first post on this blog. This version of Relativity has been so much more involved and satisfying than it’s predecessor…mostly because I was a teenager in high school dealing with silly high school drama during the first time around. Today, Relativity is about sharing and keeping a record of my adult life and the topics range from every day things to erotic moments, from sadness to happiness, and from all events in between that make up what we call life. I can definitely say that I’ve had many highs and many lows over the last year. One of the things you find out about following blogs and blogging yourself is that you are never really alone. Someone else has gone, is going, or will go through situations similar to your own and sharing those experiences help both the writer and the reader. Tom and I have had a lot of support from all of you, my readers, over the last year and I want to thank all of you for taking the time to stop by. I know I haven’t been posting as often as I used to, but I am still here and I look forward to continuing to be here.

I also look forward to some time over Tom’s knee or over the bed like this…
  
Yes, that’s me in the photo.

When The Storm Whispers To The Wind

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Erica Scott: Life, Love and Spanking

Ruminations, opinionated observations, darkly humorous blathering and the occasional rant from an outspoken spanko and unapologetic attention wh--, um, hog.

Relativity - Everything in life is relative.

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Hermione's Heart

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

This Kinky Life

One woman's thoughts and experiences on spanking and life. This blog is 18+.

New Beginnings

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

My Bottom Smarts

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Lea's Corner

~Musings and tales of my journey in the spanking world~

Dreams of Spanking

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Devlin O'Neill's Web Log

MUSINGS, MUTTERINGS AND PONTIFICATIONS BY THE RENOWNED ROMANCE AUTHOR

Passion with a Dark and Dangerous Twist

A site for romance and thriller author, Cassandre Dayne

Breanna Hayse Romance

Erotic Romance with a Twist

Blondie's Blog

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Livia Grant

Taking Romance To The Edge!

Spanking Bethie

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

The Taming of the Shrew

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

chross.blogt.ch

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

A Voice in the Corner

Spanking, spanking stories, spanking articles, erotic discipline and female submission

Incessantly spanked

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Heart and Soul

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Black and Blue

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XOXO, Beth

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the long bean

It all started as a challenge between husband and wife.....

Relativity - Everything in life is relative.

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

an English Rose

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

A Place to Share

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Where My Trust is Without Borders

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

This Whole Thing

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Spanko's

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Casey McKay

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Lillyanna Rose Submits

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.

Clara's Wish

It matters not how everyone else sees your life - all that matters is how you see it. Let's enjoy living by learning about ourselves and accepting what makes us happy.